– see the book before the age of 18 “human weakness” Author: Dale Carnegie
solitary midnight, carefully read, like tasting a delicious feast of life, their contented fun. Although it was only a rush, it was still convinced by the wisdom of Mr. Carnegie. It seems that this is not just a book, but a philosophy of life that has gathered countless lessons, and it radiates wisdom everywhere. It is like a mirror, let me know myself, understand myself, and thus self-improvement, self-driving, so that I can better manage my life.
“The weakness of human nature” is the essence of Mr. Dale Carnegie’s thoughts and career. Through the life-like stories and easy-to-understand principles, the book explores the 60 weaknesses hidden in the human body from the perspective of the nature of human nature. Only by knowing oneself and constantly transforming oneself can one grow up until success! Mr. Carnegie’s deep thoughts on these life and work have opened up a sky of wisdom for me, which has shocked my heart and made me feel Insufficient from oneself – in fact, philosophy of life is often hidden in daily life.
This reminds me of the praise of Mr. Carnegie: “The world will not stop turning because of the loss of Carnegie, but it will turn better because of him.” Mr. Carnegie uses his humanity. Insights, the use of a large number of ordinary people to constantly strive to achieve success stories, through his speeches and books, evoke countless entanglements in the confusion, inspiring our future generations to continue to succeed.
The tips and suggestions in the book “Human weaknesses” are extremely strong. The operability, summed up in one sentence is: recognize the weaknesses in human nature, you will understand the nature of human nature, and thus get twice the result with half the effort and success. This weakness can be either your own or someone else’s. By understanding these “weak points”, we can make each of us progress smoothly in daily interactions, and discover our own weaknesses, so that we can make our own strengths and circumvent weaknesses, highlight our own advantages, and thus build a better life, work in government organizations, I Always remind yourself to be prepared for danger, and constantly improve and enrich yourself. And the profound philosophy of dealing with the various relationships in life and work in “Humanity Weakness” has especially benefited me a lot:
First, the skills to get along with others. Mr. Carnegie told us: “Try to know others, not to use blame; try to think about why they want to do this? It is more useful and interesting than criticism, and it makes people feel sympathetic, patient and kindness”. Read the product carefully, and suddenly feel unconscious. Putting yourself in the shoes of others is one of the best qualities of a person. It is a necessary condition for a friend who has made a sincere heart in life. Only when one knows how to change his position can he gain the recognition and respect of others. Life is like this, and work is no different. Land integration is a people’s project. Every time, we must deal with the people. How can we effectively deal with the problems of the people? It is undoubtedly the most important to communicate and communicate with each other.
Second, how to work better. How can I work better? I think everyone will have their own answer. But Mr. Carnegie told us: “The first step for an individual to mature should be to take responsibility.” Indeed, when people are in the world, they must face many responsibilities in society, bear the consequences of their actions, and be responsible for their actions. . In work, more responsibility is needed. One person’s ability may be high or low, but if it is a serious and responsible person, at least it will be respected by others. On the other hand, an irresponsible person, even if he is talented, will bring irreparable damage to the team and the collective. As the saying goes: “The word of responsibility is heavy.” At the same time, a person who dares to take responsibility will also receive team and collective recognition, which is the best way to get friendship.
The third, happy life. In today’s society, there is a constant change. In the face of work and life pressure, fatigue is definitely something everyone will have. How can we live happily in the face of heavy pressure? Mr. Carnegie said: “The life that can be shared is rich and colorful.” Find a suitable opportunity, make a few good friends, go to the gym, swim, relax, and relax your body and mind. This is a good way to rejuvenate. Indeed, share the joy of life with others, so you may get more happiness from it. I think that the greatest advantage of young people lies in their vitality, their vitality and their passion.
The wisdom of Mr. Carnegie undoubtedly opened a door for us to know. This is not only an explanation of the philosophy of life, but also a detailed analysis of human nature. Recognizing the weakness of human nature and facing the weakness of human nature, we can better improve ourselves. Perhaps what the ancients called: “Knowledge and shame” is the truth.
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